When a Y Combinator founder’s girlfriend demanded “sweat equity” in his firm, it caused a rift on the internet. CC Gong stated in a post on the social media site X that she makes sure her boyfriend Mihail Eric eats well, has clean clothes, and gets his hair trimmed while he works through the demanding curriculum of a Y Combinator program.
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Y Combinator (YC) is a Silicon Valley-based startup accelerator that links early-stage companies with investors, mentors, and seed money. A normal batch at Y Combinator is good for three months. During this time, a limited number of startups are chosen to participate in one-on-one mentorship sessions with YC partners, network with accomplished business owners, attend lectures and demonstrations, etc. The curriculum is renowned for being demanding and intense.
A picture showing her partner, stretched out on the couch with his laptop open on the table in front of him, was posted by Gong. This is what I see when I get home on Friday nights; my guy is in YC. I see to it that he eats, does his washing, and has his hair cut. I offer encouragement, customer introductions, and feedback. Sweat equity should be given to YC girlfriends, the author wrote.
My boyfriend is in YC and this is what I come home to Friday night.
I make sure that he’s fed, do his laundry cut his hair. I give feedback, customer intros, and encouragement. YC girlfriends should be granted sweat equity. @ycombinator 30 days until demo day 💪 pic.twitter.com/2LpwQ2zWFk
— C.C. Gong (@CCgong) August 24, 2024
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Gong, a principal at Menlo Ventures and a co-founder of Montage, has experience as a founder having worked in multinational behemoths such as Microsoft and Meta. After graduating from Stanford University’s MBA program and Harvard University’s prestigious undergraduate program, she entered the corporate sector, working at Meta, Microsoft, Bain Capital Ventures etc. Her partner Mihail Eric is a co-founder of Storia AI, a firm creating the AI tool Sage, which aids in the comprehension, analysis, and creation of software by developers.
Social media users are divided over Gong’s post requesting sweat equity in her founder-boyfriend’s AI business. While many applauded and encouraged her for going above and beyond for her lover, others questioned why he was unable to look after himself. In addition to hundreds of comments and over two million views, her piece has drawn some interest from venture capitalists.
Social Media’s Reaction: Praise, Criticism, and Gender Role Debates
“No one took care of my clothes, cut my hair, or made sure I was nourished while I was in YC. One YC founder questioned, “Can we move past a narrative that normalizes women as invisible emotional labor sidekicks to men’s visible professional successes?” “I was supposedly supposed to be empowering for women, but I have wondered, still wonder, who or what is behind great women,”
Another X user remarked. “I was literally in fourth grade the first time I heard something like ‘behind every great man there’s a great woman behind him.” “Dating a business founder is the only thing more difficult than being one. It’s not something to be taken lightly! X user Ariel stated. Denis Mars said, “The real heroes are YC founders’ life partners.”
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